About
Victim 2 Victor Coaching, LLC
Healing from Narcissistic Abuse
Victim 2 Victor is dedicated to supporting individuals impacted by narcissistic abuse, offering guidance, resources, and a community to empower survivors to reclaim their lives. Started by Thedra Allen, a survivor herself, she understands the complex emotional and psychological scars left by toxic relationships. Our mission is to provide a compassionate and understanding environment where survivors can find practical tools, education, and support for healing from abuse by narcissistic partners, family members, or loved ones.
At Victim 2 Victor, we believe that through shared experiences, resilience-building strategies, and faith, survivors can move beyond the pain and find freedom and joy once again. Our goal is to be a beacon of hope for those who feel trapped, guiding them on their journey to self-discovery and empowering them to transition from victims of abuse to victorious individuals living life on their own terms.
About
Thedra Allen
Ms. Allen is a 55-year-old mother to a 17-year-old son and entrepreneur. Her life has been profoundly shaped by both hardship and healing. As the middle child of six (3 boys/3 girls, oldest boy now deceased) and the oldest of three girls, she learned early on the weight of survival and resilience. Her battle with narcissistic abuse began at the age of 13, growing up in a household under a parent with severe narcissistic traits. This environment left her feeling isolated, voiceless, and struggling to find her sense of self amid emotional manipulation, mental control, and spiritual neglect.
Looking back, she believes the grooming she endured under a narcissistic parent carved the mindset that would later influence her relationships, leading her into marriages with two men who mirrored many of her father’s traits. The familiar cycles of manipulation, control, and emotional abuse made her question her worth, leading to years of depression and self-doubt. For a long time, she asked herself, “Why me?” But eventually, she found the strength to transform this question into, “Why not me?” realizing that there might be a purpose to her experiences, even if it wasn’t yet clear.
Through her healing journey, she discovered that while she is not a licensed therapist, experience can sometimes be the most profound teacher. She came to see that her story wasn’t meant to end in suffering but rather as a testimony of resilience, faith, and purpose. As a Christian (a devout follower of Jesus Christ), she now feels called to serve others who have faced similar pain, creating a platform dedicated to helping victims of narcissistic abuse recognize, overcome, and reclaim their lives from this debilitating cycle. With a focus on practical tools and insights drawn from her own journey, she is here to offer encouragement, support, and a pathway to freedom for those feeling trapped, just as she once did.
Her mission is to empower those affected by narcissistic abuse to find their voices, rebuild their confidence, and rediscover their worth. She believes deeply that God uses our struggles to help us grow and, ultimately, to help others heal. Together, we can transform lives and help others move from Victim 2 Victor!
