I’m a passionate mother, entrepreneur, author, life coach and financial professional. My life has had its share of struggles, but it has also been a journey of healing. Growing up as the middle child of six, I learned early on what it meant to survive and stay strong. My oldest brother has passed, and I'm the oldest of three girls. 

My experience with narcissistic abuse started when I was just 13. I grew up in a home where one of my parents had severe narcissistic traits, and that environment left me feeling unheard, unimportant, and emotionally drained. I spent years trying to make sense of the manipulation, control, physical and emotional neglect I, my siblings and mother experienced. Looking back, I now see how that upbringing shaped my mindset and led me into relationships with men who treated me the same way. I married two men who had many of the same toxic traits as my father, and I found myself stuck in the same cycles of control, manipulation, and emotional abuse. It left me feeling lost, broken, and struggling with depression and self-doubt. For a long time, I kept asking, “Why me?” But eventually, the Lord changed my mindset and that question  changed to, “Why not me?” I realized that everything I went through had a bigger purpose.

As I started healing, I understood something important—experience is one of life’s greatest teachers. I may not be a therapist, but I’ve lived through this, and I know what it feels like to be trapped in a cycle of narcissistic abuse. More importantly, I know what it takes to break free. My story wasn’t meant to end in pain; it was meant to show others that healing is possible. As a Christian woman, my faith in Jesus Christ has been my anchor, and now I feel called to help others who are going through what I once did.

Now, my mission is to help people recognize narcissistic abuse, break free from it, and take back their lives. I want to help others find their voice, rebuild their confidence, and remember their worth. God doesn’t waste our struggles—He uses them to make us stronger and to help others heal. 

 

If I can make it through, so can you. Together, we can move from Victim 2 Victor!